Love at first sight !!!!!!!!!!

Recently had been to a movie......
Guy looks at the gal while passing her in a building.....
Falls for her instantly......
Later meets her at a trip and proposes marriage to her.....
She is surprised and flattered and doesnt answer.....
For a long time, he is after her and she doesnt answer......
After a long time of being friends, she says she is fine wid the proposal.....
But.................
She is a single unwed mother.......
Now what.........
If love is true, he wouldnt mind.......
But his love was on seeing her once, he cannot accept her past.......
Is this love at first sight real and for any good??????

Thought about this for a long time. Have seen lots of couples.College se lekar, abhi tak.Each person (including me), i feel has a mental checklist for the type of person, he/she is looking for.Different people have different priorities.Some go for looks, some status, some family background, some education,some money, some nature of person.I mean the weightage for all these points differs from person to person.But all these basic points are there in every person's mind.Each person they meet is analysed against this mental checklist.Anybody satisfying this image is selected.

If this person is found on our own, it becomes love marriage.If this person meets us because our family has made us meet him, it becomes arranged marriage.

I dont think there is anything as love at first sight unless our only priority is looks.How would one know the nature and compatibilty of any person with us without spending a second with that person.......

Interesting sms i received "Love is a constant battle between the heart and mind.True love is when they agree"

Kabhi Kabhi aditi zindagi........

My favourite song and i wana immortalise it.Probably by writing it on my blog. I am completely in love with each and every word and the guitar is just amazing.

Kabhi Kabhi aditi zindagi mein yuhi koi apna lagta hai
Kabhi kabhi aditi woh bichhad jaye toh ek sapna lagta hai
Aise mein koi kaise in aansuion ko behne se roke
Aur kaise koi soch de everthing's gonna be ok

Kabhi kabhi toh lage zindagi mein rahi na khushi aur na mazza
Kabhi Kabhi toh lage har din mushkil aur har pal ek sazza
Aise mein koi kaise muskurae, kaise has de khush hoke
Aur kaise koi soch de everthing's gonna be ok

Soch zara jaaneja tujhko hum kitna chahte hain
Rote hain hum bhi agar teri aankhon mein aansu aate hai
Gaana toh aata nahi hai magar phir bhi hum gaate hain
Ki aditi maan kabhi jab saare jahaan mein andhera hota hai
Lekin raat ke baad hi toh savera hota hai

Kabhi Kabhi aditi zindagi mein yuhi koi apna lagta hai
Kabhi kabhi aditi woh bichhad jaye toh ek sapna lagta hai
Ae aditi has de has de has de has de has de has de tu zara
Nahi toh bas thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda muskura

Tu khush hai toh lage ki jahaan mein chhayi hai khushi
Suraj nikle badalon se aur baaten zindagi
Sun toh zara madhosh hawa tujhse kehne lagi
Ki aditi woh jo bichhadte hain ek na ek din phir mil jaate hain
Aditi Jaane tu ya jaane na phool phir khil jaate hain

Kabhi Kabhi aditi zindagi mein yuhi koi apna lagta hai
Kabhi kabhi aditi woh bichhad jaye toh ek sapna lagta hai
Ae aditi has de has de has de has de has de has de tu zara
Nahi toh bas thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda muskura

Ae aditi has de has de has de has de has de has de tu zara
Nahi toh bas thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda muskura

Ae aditi has de has de has de has de has de has de tu zara
Nahi toh bas thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda muskura

Ae aditi has de has de has de has de has de has de tu zara
Nahi toh bas thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda muskura

Ae aditi has de has de has de has de has de has de tu zara
Nahi toh bas thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda muskura