Hey me back after a long time......
But cant stay away from writing for a very long time.....
I named my url undecisive.....
This attribute of mine has complicated life further.....
For any issue i have two options now.....
1) Dil kehta hai - emotional approach
2) Dimaag bolta hai - practical approach
Both start fighting in the brain.......
Whom should i listen to????
I decided to weigh both options......
I'll listen to whichever is heavier......
But complications have just begun.....
1) Complication no.1 - Both weigh almost equal matlab i can act according to situation 1 or 2 above. Both giving completely different results and taking me onto completely different paths
2) Complication no.2 - Situation 1 has sub alternatives a,b,c and sitaution 2 has alternatives a,b,c. So now i have even more fighting in my brain.
In short life is complicated.......
Jaise movies mein dikhate hain ek white mein aur ek black mein, 2 awaaz bolti hain.......
Par negative aur positive ki ladhai hoti toh phir bhi it would have been easy.....
Choose positive......
For some decisions there is just no right or wrong.....
There are just two paths and various sub paths......
Dil Dimaag ka sun sun ke I m going nuts.......
Par decision to lena hai.......
Just thinking from all angles so that there is no regret later....
Kaun jeetega woh toh pata nahi par itna pata hai ki baad mein regret nahi chahiye......
Isliye soch soch ke sure hona hai......
Is this indecisiveness......
Shayad nahi......
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2 comments:
Am sure its quite a common issue, this dil vs dimaag ka locha…………. infact if I may so generalise, it’s the two (sometimes more) alternatives for each decision that brings an element of complication into almost everything………..but guess that’s life and we gotta live wid it….little choice there
However filmy (maybe even ekta kapoorish) this may sound, actually, sometimes u hv to leave things to destiny……nd in my case atleast, it has worked out fine (so far, and hopefully even in future). Not that I m advocating any irresponsible or irrational decision making but then there’s a limit to the thinking that can be done to evaluate the options (especially the one’s that are neither black or white). Ulimately, some element of chance/fate /destiny does play a role in our lives. So guess once the basic evaluation of the decision is made, its instinct I rely on………..i agree this approach may not work for all people and for all situations, but atelast I hv tried to use this when I get stuck with the decision making locha (not always the dil vs dimaag thing though)
decision making....m bad at it....nd tht just goes on to say one more thng...i can never be a good manager...i guess...jokes apart....yes take you time...forget dil and dimag....just imagine urself living wid tht decision in future...and how u will face various circumstances wid tht decision...nd i guess you will get ur answer....
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