If anybody wondering what the title means, kindly read the earlier post before reading this one.Me just trying to have some fun while writing.....
Most must have guessed what i meant to say in my earlier post.....
Yeah Rite, the hot topic of the season is 'SHAADI'.....
I really cant believe in the past few months, wherever i go, people have only 1 topic on their mind.....
Some friend is getting married, some colleague engaged, some aunt-uncle looking out for rishta for my cousin/friend.If no stories about all this, i'll be asked when i am getting married.As if civilisation will end if i dont oblige them or all guys on earth will either get booked or shift to other 8-9 planets.....
I feel like screaming and saying 'Chill people, Moi only 23'......
Not that i have anything against getting married. In fact i want to.The only issue is 'the migration from girl to woman is too quick'. One day i am studying, next day i am happy that exams are over and the third day, people talk of me going away.Ok i am exaggerating on the days part.But let me find myself. Do things i wana do. Shaadi is a huge responsibilty.Taking on an entire new person and new family as your own.Agreed , all do it and love between both makes it easier.But mind and heart should be tuned to the new phase.....
Another aspect of this entire episode, love or arranged.Since moi has not yet met Mr. Right, yeh taklif bhi matashri- pitashri ko uthani padegi.The first time my mom talked about marriage et all, i had a pit in my stomach.Or cold feet is it called.Didnt know what to say and how to react.Arranged setups, being really typical.The first question was "How do u decide whom u want to spend your life with, talking for an hour or two".
Dil to pagal hai jaise koi bulb jalega kya OR Main hoon na jaise violins bajenge.
One of my colleagues going the arranged way had said to me "God knows if i'll get what i love/like or will have to love/like what i get".
The only positive of starting early (which they convinced me)is that you need not compromise on what you want in your match.You can afford to wait for Mr. Right and not settle down on Mr. Ok-Ok.
As for my story, i love my stars and literally.When i said 'wait for sometime" nobody listened to me.But now my stars say so.Yeeeeeaaaaahhhhh.My mom consulted a jyotish on this and he said 'No chance for the next two years'. Moi did a zulu dance on hearing that.Lucky me.Do saal ke liye bach gayi. Till then i'll mentally prepare myself for the life changing episode and then live happily ever after.......
What say people......
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Ur absolutely right on that one babe.. Mr.Right aint goin anywhere.. He's out there searching for his Ms. Right ;-)
As they say "Marriages are made in heaven.... and in MBA Colleges..." And now that u've decided not to go for the MBA path, probably heavens r busy fixing up a match for ya.. 2 saal ke baad pata chalega !
Anyways was jus wondering.. "Do u actually kno zulu dance".. hehe.. If yes, toh mujhe bhi batana.. meri shaadi me naachungi !
I guess everybody goes through these rigours. I know it because i was on other side of the issue and i know it better now as i am on this side of the issue.
It is indeed hard to say whether a certain person is right or wrong in talking to him/her for a few hours and i assure you that it is not the end of it. Even if you find the exact Mr. or Mrs. Right, (or who seem right after certain deliberation )the whole act of living together is an experience in itself.
Come to think of it, you can chuck the friends you don't like. You can avoid irritating relatives. You can change schools to avoid the teachers you don't like. You can sulk and not talk to your parents or siblings till you feel like.
Now, Husband/ Wife is such kind of relationship which needs to built every day. It is a relation which is easy yet hard to cheat, ignore, sulk or do anthing you want to do.
It is one relation in your life, where you as an individual matters, everything is in your hands on how you tend the relationship, you can either make or break it up. where, your committment is directly proportional to how much you care and are willing to nuture it. And trust me it provides a lot of insights into who you are as a person.
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